Understanding Behavioral Issues in Children

What Are Behavioral Issues?

Behavioral issues include actions that disrupt a child’s ability to function at home, school, or in social settings. These may look like defiance, aggression, withdrawal, or trouble concentrating. Sometimes these behaviors are temporary; other times, they indicate a deeper need.

Our article on the difference between behavioral disabilities and behavioral disorders can help you understand how professionals define and respond to these challenges.

Common Behavioral Disorders in Kids

Behavioral issues can be symptoms of conditions like:

  • Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
  • Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)
  • Anxiety disorders
  • Autism Spectrum Disorder
  • Conduct Disorder

Early identification—whether in preschool or middle school—can lead to more effective treatment and better coping skills.

What Causes Behavioral Issues in Kids?

Causes vary. A child may be reacting to trauma, struggling with learning disabilities, or experiencing mental health challenges. In many cases, behavior problems in school or at home are signs of unmet needs—not just “bad behavior.”

What Is Early Intervention—and Who Qualifies?

Early Intervention in New Jersey

In New Jersey, the term Early Intervention specifically refers to services provided through the New Jersey Early Intervention System (NJEIS) for children under age 3 who show signs of developmental or behavioral delays. These services are delivered in home or community settings and include:

  • Speech and language therapy
  • Occupational therapy
  • Behavioral therapy
  • Developmental monitoring

NJCMO helps families navigate the NJEIS referral process, understand eligibility, and connect with providers who can guide their child’s early development.

What About Older Children and Teens?

While the NJEIS program ends at age 3, older children still have access to behavioral health services—they just come through different pathways. Children ages 3 and up may qualify for:

  • School-based interventions (504 Plans, IEPs)
  • Behavioral Support Plans developed with educators
  • Outpatient behavioral therapy
  • Community-based behavioral health services

NJCMO can connect families to wraparound services for behavioral issues or help you work with your child’s school to develop a plan. It’s never too late to get help.


Spotting the Signs: When to Act

Early Signs in Young Children

For toddlers and preschoolers, early warning signs may include:

  • Extreme tantrums or aggression
  • Delayed speech or motor development
  • Difficulty following directions
  • Trouble with transitions

If your child is under 3 and you notice these patterns, NJCMO can assist with starting the NJEIS evaluation process.

School Behavior Problems in Older Children

For school-aged kids, behavioral issues in the classroom may include:

  • Persistent defiance or disruptions
  • Difficulty focusing or staying organized
  • Social withdrawal or isolation
  • Aggression toward peers

Our article on how to help your child when they’re struggling in school can help you take the first steps.

Behavior Issues at School vs. Home

It’s not uncommon for behavior to look different depending on the setting. A child may behave well at school but have major meltdowns at home—or vice versa. That’s why coordinated evaluation and communication between caregivers and professionals is key.


What Early Behavioral Support Looks Like

For Young Children: Early Intervention Behavioral Therapy

Behavioral therapies for young children may include Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), play therapy, and parent coaching. These therapies are tailored to the child’s developmental stage and often happen in natural environments like the home.

Understanding what early intensive behavioral intervention is can help parents see how impactful early treatment can be.

For Older Children: Behavioral Support Plans and School Services

Children over 3 who show ongoing behavior problems may benefit from a Behavioral Support Plan (BSP). These plans outline strategies teachers and caregivers use to support positive behavior.

You can read more about how to establish a behavior support plan and how NJCMO helps parents advocate for the right services at school.

How NJCMO Helps

At every age and stage, NJCMO serves as a guide. We help families:

  • Identify if Early Intervention is appropriate
  • Navigate evaluations and referrals
  • Connect with behavioral health professionals
  • Understand school-based options and rights
  • Coordinate care between providers, schools, and families

Whether your child is 2 or 12, we’re here to help you take the next step.

Final Thoughts and Next Steps

Early intervention isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a lifeline for families. If your child is under age 3, Early Intervention services in New Jersey can make a meaningful difference. But even if your child is older, it’s never too late to seek help.

NJCMO connects families to the right services at the right time. From navigating NJEIS to finding school supports for teens, we walk with you every step of the way.Contact us today to get connected to the support your child needs—no matter their age.

FAQs

Can a child have behavior issues without a behavioral disorder?

Yes. Stress, environmental changes, or emotional struggles can cause temporary behavior problems. NJCMO can help assess whether formal support is needed.

What are the 5 most common behavioral issues in children?

ADHD, ODD, anxiety, autism spectrum behaviors, and conduct disorders are among the most frequently seen.

What causes behavior problems in school?

Behavior problems can stem from academic struggles, mental health conditions, or lack of structure. Early evaluation helps uncover the cause.

How can I help my child with behavior issues at school?

Start by working with your child’s teacher and contacting NJCMO for local referrals and support planning.

What are some common behavioral health issues that require treatment?

Persistent defiance, aggression, attention problems, or emotional withdrawal may signal a need for therapy or evaluation.

What is early intensive behavioral intervention?

It’s a therapy approach, often used for young children with autism, that uses structured teaching to build communication and reduce problem behaviors.

Can a child have behavior issues but not qualify for Early Intervention?

Yes. If a child is older than 3 or their symptoms are situational, they may not qualify for NJEIS but still need support. NJCMO can help explore next steps.

What’s the difference between a Behavioral Support Plan and Early Intervention?

Early Intervention is a state program for children under 3, while a BSP is often created for school-aged children to guide behavior strategies at school.

Can older children still receive early intervention?

Not through NJEIS, but they can receive school-based services, behavioral therapy, and wraparound support. NJCMO can guide you to the right programs.

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